Erika and I traveled to Seattle on December 4th. Thankfully at night traffic was relatively light and we had no trouble finding our hotel. Erika had her 1st appointment on Monday. We met with rehab psychologist.
Tuesday she had testing from 9AM to 1:30 with the psychologist and speech therapist. We left right from there to pick up Brittany and Michelle at the airport. I immediatley turned over the combat driving to Michelle. We got to spend Tuesday afternoon/evening with Kristi and Makelya Finley (friends who use to live in Fairbanks) going to the malls.
On Wednesday, Brittany had appointments with the rehab doctor, occupational therapist, physical therapist, psychologist, school teacher and speech therapist. These were back to back appointments from 9 to 2. (Erika had plenty of time to work on school work) Then we had our last appointment for Erika with the psychologist and speech therapist.
Brittany was pleased with her appointment with the rehab doctor. She was given permission to resume activities (contact) next summer, she can do a few now with precautions and limits. Most exciting is that the Dr. said Brittany can resume driving (Mom and Dad think spring will be a good time to pick this back up).
The doctor wants Brittany to continue physical therapy for a couple more months she would like to see her pelvis/hip stronger.
Brittany worked with the PT and OT. She has gained alot of strength since she was there in September all the measurements had improved.
Next we met with the psychologist, school teacher, and speech therapist. This was an emotional meeting for both of us. I think I have been so focused on Brittany's physical well being that I had not fully recognized the emotional toll this has had on Brittany. She opened up about her feelings of missing friends and not being at school full time.
The new semester will bring change for Brittany. She will be returning to school full-time. She will continue PT, but as Erika would say she has graduated from OT and speech.
Brittany may have some long term subtle changes, but God has truly blessed us with a Christmas blessing. He has answered our prayers.
Erika's evaluation went very well. All her testing went well her personal weakness was in her working memory, but it was minimal. Again our prayers have been answered.
To celebrate their good checkups and my birthday we went to the Cheesecake Factory for dinner. You should start with dessert because after eating dinner we didn't have dessert. Took Michelle and Brittany back to the airport.
On Thursday, Erika saw a plastic surgeon to have her eyelid evaluated. Her eyes do not droop. Sometimes the eyelid and the way it is healing gives the appearance that her eye droops. Erika is adamant that she will not be having anything done to it and since mom and dad got their question answered that there is nothing that needs to be done medically everyone was happy with the appointment. They did find one last lonely stitch and removed it!
Now that all of our appointments were over it was time for some fun. We decided to visit the American girl doll store. After all the Seattle combat driving, I couldn't believe it a guy backed into us in the parking lot!! Ugh after an 11/2 hour we got to go to the store. We then changed hotels closer to our friends. Spent the evening with the Finley's and Erika got to have Mikaelya for a sleepover. Spent Friday with Kristi, Dustin, and Mikaelya before flying home.
On December 13th Brittany and Erika saw their orthopedic doctor. Erika has graduated from PT. She will get to return to regular gym class in January. Brittany will continue PT and her own exercise routine. Both girls are healing well, but I ask for your prayers that they have no long term problems from the change in their pelvis.
I look back on these four months and what a long journey it has been in someways, but how much progress they have made in a relatively short time. The Great Physician has truly blessed us.
Jennifer
Let all who seek Thee rejoice and be glad in Thee;
And let those who love Thy salvation say continually,
"Let God be magnified."
Psalm 70:4
Saturday, December 17, 2011
Saturday, November 19, 2011
Saturday, November 19th
Yesterday and today we celebrated Donald and Erika's 11th birthday. We got to go swimming last night with Tim, Kaylee, Jesse, Juliana, PJ and 2 classmates. Then we had a sleepover three girls upstairs three boys downstairs. Tonight we had some of our Fairbanks family for a birthday celebration at home. The Taylor's, Mondelli's, and Mellon's joined us.
I want to wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving. I know this Thanksgiving I will be reflecting on how much our family has to be thankful for. We have been blessed by God and so many people those close to us and those we've never met, but have touched our lives.
I am not going to blog next week, but please keep us in your prayers. Brittany, Erika, Michelle, and I will be traveling to Seattle from December 4 - 9th for follow- up evaluations (and hopefully a little fun).
I want to wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving. I know this Thanksgiving I will be reflecting on how much our family has to be thankful for. We have been blessed by God and so many people those close to us and those we've never met, but have touched our lives.
I am not going to blog next week, but please keep us in your prayers. Brittany, Erika, Michelle, and I will be traveling to Seattle from December 4 - 9th for follow- up evaluations (and hopefully a little fun).
Sunday, November 13, 2011
Sunday November 13th
I realized this morning that I forgot to blog last night. Erika had a successful return to full school days this week. I think she is more tired than she likes to admit, but it is a good tired. She continues to work hard in PT and is looking forward to getting to go swimming this Friday to celebrate her 11th birthday. Please continue to pray for Erika's physical healing, but also for some of her anxieties to lessen. She has been through a lot for a 10 year old to understand.
Brianna and Donald have been willing helpers (the majority of the time). While they have healed physically I want to share how proud of them I am for their academic achievements through this stressful time. Brianna just received an award certificate for earning a 4.0. Donald made a great gain in his reading (first time I remember having to change his IEP because he was reaching the goal).
Brittany continues to work hard in speech, OT, and PT. She is also planning to take a history course through BYU. She should start it in the next few weeks. Brittany is doing well in her Algebra and Art class. Brittany would like to return to school full time next semester. This is a huge goal for her. Prayers would be appreciated. Her OT recommended she have further evaluation of her hand so she will be seeing her orthopedic Dr. on Tuesday please pray that no surgery will be required.
I know I said I would post some new pictures and I will try soon.
Jennifer
Give all your worries to him, because he cares about you.
New Century Version I Peter 5:7
Brianna and Donald have been willing helpers (the majority of the time). While they have healed physically I want to share how proud of them I am for their academic achievements through this stressful time. Brianna just received an award certificate for earning a 4.0. Donald made a great gain in his reading (first time I remember having to change his IEP because he was reaching the goal).
Brittany continues to work hard in speech, OT, and PT. She is also planning to take a history course through BYU. She should start it in the next few weeks. Brittany is doing well in her Algebra and Art class. Brittany would like to return to school full time next semester. This is a huge goal for her. Prayers would be appreciated. Her OT recommended she have further evaluation of her hand so she will be seeing her orthopedic Dr. on Tuesday please pray that no surgery will be required.
I know I said I would post some new pictures and I will try soon.
Jennifer
Give all your worries to him, because he cares about you.
New Century Version I Peter 5:7
Sunday, November 6, 2011
Saturday Nov. 5, 2011
Brittany and Erika continue to get stronger each day. Erika seems to be on a faster course than Brittany at the moment. Therapies continue several days a week for both girls. Erika will return to school full days this coming Monday. Thank you for your continued prayers over the past three months. It has been a long journey and I try to face each day recognizing the blessings we have been given.
Jennifer
Jennifer
Sunday, October 30, 2011
Saturday, October 29th
This was an exciting week!!! Erika, Brittany, and Kaylee are all crutch free. The girls continue to work hard in their therapies. Please pray for them to be patient while having to wait to return to some of their physical activities it's not easy. I can tell the girls are still experiencing some discomfort, but just seeing them walk reminds me of how excited parents are when their baby takes their first steps. I am reminded daily how truly blessed we are. Next week I will get the real blogger (Michelle) to help me post some pictures. Thank you for the continued prayers.
Jennifer
Jennifer
Sunday, October 23, 2011
October 22, Saturday
We started the week off with celebrating Brittany's 17th birthday!!! We had lunch on Sunday with friends from church. On Monday the rifle team had a surprise party for her. What a blessing to be able to celebrate this day.
Brittany had her first outpatient PT. She did very well. She continues with OT and speech. Brittany was able to shoot a whole target this week standing. Her aim is pretty right on now if she can continue to build her endurance.( a match requires shooting 6 targets) She was granted a waiver that is allowing her to participate even though she is only enrolled in 2 classes.
Erika continues to go to school half days. She has enjoyed getting to return to her ELP class. Erika got to go outside for a couple recesses this week, but after a rough go one day she decided maybe indoor recess wasn't such a bad idea after all. She will see the orthopedic Dr. later this week. Please pray this week for the wound on her head to heal quickly she is eager to hit the swimming pool, but this is holding her back.
The big news this week for Brianna was that she was asked to join the Eclipse 98 competitive soccer team. Needless to say she was very excited and she has worked hard toward this. Go Brianna Go Eclipse. (I will thank Michelle in advance since I know that since Cristina is playing I'll have help.)
I can't leave Don and Donald out they left yesterday with two friends Mr. Robert and Grandpa Robert to go hunting for a bison. Don has been putting in for this permit for 20+ years and of all years his name was drawn. They will return tomorrow. (So far the bison are winning) They will have a few more opportunities, but it would be nice if they could get one before the deep freeze settles in.
Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who takes refugee in Him. (NIV)
God Bless All of You
Jennifer
Brittany had her first outpatient PT. She did very well. She continues with OT and speech. Brittany was able to shoot a whole target this week standing. Her aim is pretty right on now if she can continue to build her endurance.( a match requires shooting 6 targets) She was granted a waiver that is allowing her to participate even though she is only enrolled in 2 classes.
Erika continues to go to school half days. She has enjoyed getting to return to her ELP class. Erika got to go outside for a couple recesses this week, but after a rough go one day she decided maybe indoor recess wasn't such a bad idea after all. She will see the orthopedic Dr. later this week. Please pray this week for the wound on her head to heal quickly she is eager to hit the swimming pool, but this is holding her back.
The big news this week for Brianna was that she was asked to join the Eclipse 98 competitive soccer team. Needless to say she was very excited and she has worked hard toward this. Go Brianna Go Eclipse. (I will thank Michelle in advance since I know that since Cristina is playing I'll have help.)
I can't leave Don and Donald out they left yesterday with two friends Mr. Robert and Grandpa Robert to go hunting for a bison. Don has been putting in for this permit for 20+ years and of all years his name was drawn. They will return tomorrow. (So far the bison are winning) They will have a few more opportunities, but it would be nice if they could get one before the deep freeze settles in.
Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who takes refugee in Him. (NIV)
God Bless All of You
Jennifer
Saturday, October 15, 2011
Saturday October 15th
Erika attended school half day all week. :) She was caught playing badminton standing up when the agreement was she would sit in a chair to play during PE.
Erika also started outpatient physical therapy this week and was excited to get to take a few steps without her crutches.
Brittany was able to shoot two shots in air rifle standing this week. (Shot 9's) She will be continuing to build up her strength.
Brittany saw the orthopedic doctor on Friday and is now full weight bearing on her right side. She is only required to use one crutch. She will start outpatient PT this week.
Thank you for the continued prayers.
"Oh Lord My God,
I cried to you for help
And you have healed Me"
Psalm 30:2
Jennifer (operator of the looney bin)
Erika also started outpatient physical therapy this week and was excited to get to take a few steps without her crutches.
Brittany was able to shoot two shots in air rifle standing this week. (Shot 9's) She will be continuing to build up her strength.
Brittany saw the orthopedic doctor on Friday and is now full weight bearing on her right side. She is only required to use one crutch. She will start outpatient PT this week.
Thank you for the continued prayers.
"Oh Lord My God,
I cried to you for help
And you have healed Me"
Psalm 30:2
Jennifer (operator of the looney bin)
Sunday, October 9, 2011
Sunday, 10pm
Monday: Erika began school with math class, recess, and lunch with much success. She is excited to be back.
Tuesday: Erika attended her first Girl Scout meeting of the year.
Wednesday: Brittany was able to shoot air rifle with the rifle team. She has been allowed to participate!
Thursday: Erika's last homebound physical therapy. Now on to outpatient therapy!
Friday: Beth and Leiah Reichel made a surprise visit to see the Stickel's and Bennett's. They were able to help celebrate Tim's birthday. Pictures to come later.
Saturday: Brianna scored three times in her soccer game!
Continued prayers for psychological healing for all the victims and their caretakers.
3 His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness.
1 Peter 1:3 NIV
Michelle Mondelli
Tuesday: Erika attended her first Girl Scout meeting of the year.
Wednesday: Brittany was able to shoot air rifle with the rifle team. She has been allowed to participate!
Thursday: Erika's last homebound physical therapy. Now on to outpatient therapy!
Friday: Beth and Leiah Reichel made a surprise visit to see the Stickel's and Bennett's. They were able to help celebrate Tim's birthday. Pictures to come later.
Saturday: Brianna scored three times in her soccer game!
Continued prayers for psychological healing for all the victims and their caretakers.
3 His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness.
1 Peter 1:3 NIV
Michelle Mondelli
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Saturday, 10pm
The week in review:
Sunday: It was a great day and I wish I had my camera at church! It was the first time since the accident that all the Bennett's and Stickel's were able to worship together. Even Granddaddy joined them!
Tuesday: Brittany began school at Lathrop. She is taking 2 classes, math and Honors Art. She also continued her Occupational and Speech Therapy in the Outpatient setting. Erika also had her last homebound speech therapy and tutoring session.
Friday (Erika): The big news is Erika is cast free! She will need crutches for the next month, but is full weight bearing on both legs. She is ultra-excited! She will be starting school on Monday, beginning with math, lunch, and recess. (She's got the important stuff in!) Please pray for a smooth transition.
Friday (Brittany): Brittany got the final medical clearance she needs to be able to participate on the Lathrop Rifle Team. Because she is not taking a full case load, she needs a waiver to compete. Please pray she gets this waiver. Competing has been her goal since they took the ventilator out.
Saturday (today): Granddaddy and Grandma Jo left this morning to go back home in Juneau.Their departure was bittersweet. They were appreciated by many for the help, emotional support, and love they were able to provide while they were here, but it's good thing that Don and Jennifer feel like they can function as a family, again.
Saturday (Brianna): Brianna played in her first competitive soccer game this morning. (Yes, it's indoor soccer.) The team didn't win, but it is a milestone. It was her first game since the accident.
Jennifer is glad to be home, (this is the longest she's been home since before the accident,) but is a bit overwhelmed with the amount of decisions and tasks that come with having children with a variety of "new" needs. She is glad she has the daily challenges because it means life at the "Looney Bin #1" is working on the return to normal (whatever that is/was!).
He will cover you with His feathers, and under His wings you will find refuge; His faithfulness will be your shield and rampart. Psalms 91:4
Michelle Mondelli
(of the Looney Bin #2)
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Saturday, 11pm
It was a busy day. All four Bennett kids played games together with Jesse, Kaylee, and Tim Stickel. Brittany and her friend, Briana, made a trip to Fred Meyer and shopped for some items lost in the accident.
There are lots of appointments this coming week for both Erika and Brittany. We would like prayers to make good decisions to help Brit back to school and to begin the transition for Erika. Because the girls' progress is slower and not as dramatic now, we will try to blog once a week for those that still want occasional updates. Jennifer feels a little overwhelmed but is thankful to be home, even though she isn't sleeping in her own bed, yet. You can bet the kids and Don are glad she's home. She received a dozen peach roses tonight!
Oh, how generous and gracious our Lord was! He filled me with the faith and love that come from Christ Jesus.
~ 1 Timothy 1:14, NLT
Michelle Mondelli
(head writer for the Looney Bin)
There are lots of appointments this coming week for both Erika and Brittany. We would like prayers to make good decisions to help Brit back to school and to begin the transition for Erika. Because the girls' progress is slower and not as dramatic now, we will try to blog once a week for those that still want occasional updates. Jennifer feels a little overwhelmed but is thankful to be home, even though she isn't sleeping in her own bed, yet. You can bet the kids and Don are glad she's home. She received a dozen peach roses tonight!
Oh, how generous and gracious our Lord was! He filled me with the faith and love that come from Christ Jesus.
~ 1 Timothy 1:14, NLT
Michelle Mondelli
(head writer for the Looney Bin)
Friday, September 23, 2011
Friday, 9:45pm
The big day has arrived! Brittany made it into Fairbanks at about 9pm and was met by family and friends. More details to follow tomorrow.
Michelle Mondelli
Michelle Mondelli
Thursday, September 22, 2011
Thursday, 10pm
The most exciting news of the day is Brianna got her cast off today! She is very excited to be able to do sports again. Soccer, here she comes!
Brittany finished up her evaluations in Seattle. She will be coming home tomorrow. Things look good for her. She will continue with Speech and Occupational Therapy on an outpatient basis. Physical Therapy will be added as her leg and pelvis improve and she is able to bear weight once again. She has been cleared for school, but has been advised not to dive in. She will need to take it slow (probably only a couple of classes) considering she has lots of make up work to complete. (School has been in session for five weeks now.) Brittany is excited about being cleared for air rifle. The doctors in Anchorage didn't think she'd be able to do it. She has amazed everyone! The girls are "walking" miracles!
New International Version (©1984)
Jesus replied, "What is impossible with men is possible with God."
Luke 18:27
Michelle Mondelli (in Fairbanks)
New International Version (©1984)
Jesus replied, "What is impossible with men is possible with God."
Luke 18:27
Michelle Mondelli (in Fairbanks)
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Tuesday, 4pm
I am blogging early today because (regrettably) I have to catch a flight back to Fairbanks this evening.
Brittany had another busy day. This morning was OT, PT, and then school and speech. Brittany's second OT session was held in the pool!
This afternoon Speech Therapy and Recreational Therapy (TR) took Brittany and us on an outing. We went back to the "California-style" mall. This time we went for cupcakes at a cute little shop. All the therapists seem pleased with Brittany's progress so far.
It has been a quirky day also. The clock in Brittany's room was off by about 25 minutes when Jennifer and I got here this morning. As we were looking at the clock trying to determine how far off it was, the hands started going around and around at a break-neck speed! It was weird! This continued for at least 10 minutes and now the clock is an hour fast. There was also a fire drill this morning. Brittany was at "school" in the day room and the nurse closed the door to her regular room where Jennifer and I were sitting. Also, quirky is the name of Brittany's evening nurse. His name is Happy (we think).
Then the way you live will always honor and please the Lord, and your lives will produce every kind of good fruit. All the while, you will grow as you learn to know God better and better.
~ Colossians 1:10, NLT
Michelle Mondelli (in Seattle)
Brittany had another busy day. This morning was OT, PT, and then school and speech. Brittany's second OT session was held in the pool!
This afternoon Speech Therapy and Recreational Therapy (TR) took Brittany and us on an outing. We went back to the "California-style" mall. This time we went for cupcakes at a cute little shop. All the therapists seem pleased with Brittany's progress so far.
It has been a quirky day also. The clock in Brittany's room was off by about 25 minutes when Jennifer and I got here this morning. As we were looking at the clock trying to determine how far off it was, the hands started going around and around at a break-neck speed! It was weird! This continued for at least 10 minutes and now the clock is an hour fast. There was also a fire drill this morning. Brittany was at "school" in the day room and the nurse closed the door to her regular room where Jennifer and I were sitting. Also, quirky is the name of Brittany's evening nurse. His name is Happy (we think).
Then the way you live will always honor and please the Lord, and your lives will produce every kind of good fruit. All the while, you will grow as you learn to know God better and better.
~ Colossians 1:10, NLT
Michelle Mondelli (in Seattle)
Monday, September 19, 2011
Monday, 11pm
Brittany was in good spirits today. The doctors extended her therapies by 15 minutes each to 45 minutes this morning and a half hour this afternoon. Brittany also attended a group session of speech/recreational therapy. She was excited to begin school. She even had "homework"--finish a math assessment. A bright spot of Brittany's day may have been the Olive Garden fettucine we brought for dinner. It was a very full day and she fell asleep early.
The highlight of the day was finding out Brittany will be able to go back to Fairbanks soon, probably Friday. She is still trying to find an accomplice to get out earlier. There are still more assessments to complete. Therapies need to be arranged in Fairbanks, also.
Psalm 89:2, 8
I will declare that your love stands firm forever, that you established your faithfulness in heaven itself... O LORD God Almighty, who is like you? You are mighty, O LORD, and your faithfulness surrounds you.
Michelle Mondelli
The highlight of the day was finding out Brittany will be able to go back to Fairbanks soon, probably Friday. She is still trying to find an accomplice to get out earlier. There are still more assessments to complete. Therapies need to be arranged in Fairbanks, also.
Psalm 89:2, 8
I will declare that your love stands firm forever, that you established your faithfulness in heaven itself... O LORD God Almighty, who is like you? You are mighty, O LORD, and your faithfulness surrounds you.
Michelle Mondelli
Sunday, September 18, 2011
Sunday, 8pm
Psalm 51:10 Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.
Michelle Mondelli (in Seattle)
Saturday, September 17, 2011
Saturday, 9pm
Weekends seem to be laid back here. Brittany had only one session each of physical, occupational, and speech therapy today. She is still looking for an accomplice to get her out of here! She campaigned for one this evening. Sawyer and Sheila Collins stopped by for visit. The Finley's (Allen, Kristi, Dustin, and Makaela) brought us some wonderful award winning White Chicken Chili and corn bread. There was also a couple games of Uno played. It was great to visit with old friends.
Sorry the picture is sideways. Brittany had a visit from "Dr. Abe", a therapy dog this morning.
Erika was able to having a special outing today, courtesy of Mitchell Taylor. She had a busy day and should sleep well tonight.
For we are God's masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.
~ Ephesians 2:10, NLT
Michelle Mondelli
Erika was able to having a special outing today, courtesy of Mitchell Taylor. She had a busy day and should sleep well tonight.
For we are God's masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.
~ Ephesians 2:10, NLT
Michelle Mondelli
Saturday, 8am
Sorry, Folks! I have been having difficulty with the internet at the Ronald McDonald House.
Here is a picture of Brittany on her outing yesterday. We took it in honor of Vicki's birthday.
Brittany is also asking for any accomplices for a jailbreak to contact her. Are there any takers? Aunt Rocky? Kaylee?
Brittany seemed to have another good night. She has gone almost 24 hours with no more than Tylenol for pain control. Yay!
Michelle Mondelli
Here is a picture of Brittany on her outing yesterday. We took it in honor of Vicki's birthday.
Brittany seemed to have another good night. She has gone almost 24 hours with no more than Tylenol for pain control. Yay!
Michelle Mondelli
Friday, 11pm
Brittany had another busy day! The morning was pretty easy with Occupational Therapy. Recreational and Physical Therapy combined forces and took Brittany on an outing. We all went to a "California-style" mall (with more stores than all of Fairbanks) for lunch. Brittany choose the restaurant and bought us lunch (courtesy of Brian, the Recreational Therapist). As soon as we got back, Brittany had another Occupational Therapy session followed by two Speech Therapy sessions. She was wiped out! (I have a special picture I was going to put here in honor Vicki's birthday, but I'm having technical difficulties. I will try tomorrow. Sorry!)
Brittany finished her day with a visit from Allen and Kristi Finley. Allen, I know the only reason you came was to make the blog! :) The Bennett family was able to Skype and visit with each other. It was fun to watch the kids interact with each other.
We found out (via Facebook) that Erika is able to stand with crutches. She may not walk yet though. She also had her tutoring today. Erika and Kaylee with the new and improved, decorated crutches.
Brittany finished her day with a visit from Allen and Kristi Finley. Allen, I know the only reason you came was to make the blog! :) The Bennett family was able to Skype and visit with each other. It was fun to watch the kids interact with each other.
We found out (via Facebook) that Erika is able to stand with crutches. She may not walk yet though. She also had her tutoring today. Erika and Kaylee with the new and improved, decorated crutches.
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Thursday, 10pm (PDT)
Brittany had an extremely busy day!!! She checked into Seattle Children's Hospital around 9am and it was not stop all day. She had two physical therapy sessions, two recreational therapy sessions, and sessions of speech therapy and occupational therapy. She also met with her physiatrist (rehabilitation specialist) and the resident physiatrist, social worker, and psychologist.
Physically, Brittany also hit another milestone. She was able to begin using crutches! She's been very excited about this new development. She let her Facebook friends know even before mom. (Once again, we stepped out to get some lunch.) She handled all the activity well, but was very tired when we left this evening.
Erika continued with her physical therapy and speech therapy at home today. (Granddaddy is a real slave driver so I'm sure she did her PT "homework" as well!) It seems like both girls have had a lot of assessments, including another speech one for Erika today. I'm assuming it's to measure the improvement they have both made!
Jennifer was able to get a room at the Ronald McDonald House here in Seattle. We are within walking distance if it's not raining. We will be here through Wednesday, September 21st at least. The address is:
Brittany Bennett BLDG A/RM 263
Ronald McDonald House
5130--40th Avenue NE
Seattle, WA 98105
2 He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
3 he refreshes my soul.
He guides me along the right paths
for his name’s sake.
4 Even though I walk
through the darkest valley,[a]
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me
all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the LORD
forever.
Michelle Mondelli (in Seattle)
Physically, Brittany also hit another milestone. She was able to begin using crutches! She's been very excited about this new development. She let her Facebook friends know even before mom. (Once again, we stepped out to get some lunch.) She handled all the activity well, but was very tired when we left this evening.
Erika continued with her physical therapy and speech therapy at home today. (Granddaddy is a real slave driver so I'm sure she did her PT "homework" as well!) It seems like both girls have had a lot of assessments, including another speech one for Erika today. I'm assuming it's to measure the improvement they have both made!
Jennifer was able to get a room at the Ronald McDonald House here in Seattle. We are within walking distance if it's not raining. We will be here through Wednesday, September 21st at least. The address is:
Brittany Bennett BLDG A/RM 263
Ronald McDonald House
5130--40th Avenue NE
Seattle, WA 98105
Psalm 23 (NIV)
A psalm of David. 1 The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing.2 He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
3 he refreshes my soul.
He guides me along the right paths
for his name’s sake.
4 Even though I walk
through the darkest valley,[a]
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me
all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the LORD
forever.
Michelle Mondelli (in Seattle)
Thursday, 1am
We are finally settled in Seattle! It seemed like a long flight (for both Brittany and Michelle, for different reasons) but we survived and made it through the car rental and hotel process. It was a long trip for Brittany but she was a good sport. Morning will come early. Check-in at the hospital is at 9am.
There was a nice crowd at the airport to see Brittany off.
Kaylee, Don, Roxanne, Brianna, Granddaddy (Don), Donald, Jennifer, Jesse, Grandma Jo (JoLynn)
and in front, Brittany and Erika
There was a nice crowd at the airport to see Brittany off.
and in front, Brittany and Erika
- Psalm 31:19
How great is your goodness, which you have stored up for those who fear you, which you bestow in the sight of men on those who take refuge in you. (NIV)
- Michelle Mondelli (in Seattle)
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Wednesday, 11:45am
It's official!! Jennifer, Brittany, and I have plane tickets for Seattle on an afternoon flight today. Please pray for safe travel and wisdom for the evaluation team once we get there. Also, pray for God's peace during this stressful "prep" time before the flight. Thanks.
Michelle Mondelli
Michelle Mondelli
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Tuesday, 10:30 pm
Hurry up and wait has the mantra of the day! Brittany is still in Fairbanks awaiting final approval of the insurance company. (It was supposed to be a 99% sure deal.) Brittany is hoping this means she gets to stay in Fairbanks, but Jennifer has told her it is just prolonging the inevitable.
Erika seems to be more and more frustrated these days. It appears she wants to do more physically, but is limited by the splinted broken femur on one side and the casted broken foot on the other. It's only 2 more weeks before they think the foot cast will be removed.
Since we are waiting on the Lord's timing, Jennifer thought the following verses were fitting.
and a season for every activity under the heavens: 2 a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
3 a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
4 a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
6 a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
7 a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
8 a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace.
9 What do workers gain from their toil? 10 I have seen the burden God has laid on the human race. 11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet[a] no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end. 12 I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live. 13 That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God. 14 I know that everything God does will endure forever; nothing can be added to it and nothing taken from it. God does it so that people will fear him.
15 Whatever is has already been,
and what will be has been before;
and God will call the past to account.[b]
16 And I saw something else under the sun:
In the place of judgment—wickedness was there,
in the place of justice—wickedness was there.
17 I said to myself,
“God will bring into judgment
both the righteous and the wicked,
for there will be a time for every activity,
a time to judge every deed.”
18 I also said to myself, “As for humans, God tests them so that they may see that they are like the animals. 19 Surely the fate of human beings is like that of the animals; the same fate awaits them both: As one dies, so dies the other. All have the same breath[c]; humans have no advantage over animals. Everything is meaningless. 20 All go to the same place; all come from dust, and to dust all return. 21 Who knows if the human spirit rises upward and if the spirit of the animal goes down into the earth?”
22 So I saw that there is nothing better for a person than to enjoy their work, because that is their lot. For who can bring them to see what will happen after them?
Michelle Mondelli
(still in Fairbanks)
Erika seems to be more and more frustrated these days. It appears she wants to do more physically, but is limited by the splinted broken femur on one side and the casted broken foot on the other. It's only 2 more weeks before they think the foot cast will be removed.
Since we are waiting on the Lord's timing, Jennifer thought the following verses were fitting.
Ecclesiastes 3
A Time for Everything
1 There is a time for everything,and a season for every activity under the heavens: 2 a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
3 a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
4 a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
6 a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
7 a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
8 a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace.
9 What do workers gain from their toil? 10 I have seen the burden God has laid on the human race. 11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet[a] no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end. 12 I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live. 13 That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God. 14 I know that everything God does will endure forever; nothing can be added to it and nothing taken from it. God does it so that people will fear him.
15 Whatever is has already been,
and what will be has been before;
and God will call the past to account.[b]
16 And I saw something else under the sun:
In the place of judgment—wickedness was there,
in the place of justice—wickedness was there.
17 I said to myself,
“God will bring into judgment
both the righteous and the wicked,
for there will be a time for every activity,
a time to judge every deed.”
18 I also said to myself, “As for humans, God tests them so that they may see that they are like the animals. 19 Surely the fate of human beings is like that of the animals; the same fate awaits them both: As one dies, so dies the other. All have the same breath[c]; humans have no advantage over animals. Everything is meaningless. 20 All go to the same place; all come from dust, and to dust all return. 21 Who knows if the human spirit rises upward and if the spirit of the animal goes down into the earth?”
22 So I saw that there is nothing better for a person than to enjoy their work, because that is their lot. For who can bring them to see what will happen after them?
Michelle Mondelli
(still in Fairbanks)
Monday, 11:30pm
Brittany had an orthopedic appointment today. She can now wave like a princess! The cast on her right arm and hand was removed. The incision has healed up nice, also. She has permission to begin using crutches and/or a walker (instead of the wheelchair) when she gets to Seattle. She will probably (not definitely) leave tomorrow. She is resigned, but not happy about having to leave home.
Erika continues to do well. Her tutor came today and left homework for tomorrow. Granddaddy has been diligent in helping Erika with her physical therapy "homework". All this homework really wears Erika out!
I know I've used this verse before, but it is appropriate for today also. On my way through town I saw a bald eagle circling high about the business district. This verse came to mind. Thank you, God, for the reminder.
New International Version (©1984)
but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Michelle Mondelli
Erika continues to do well. Her tutor came today and left homework for tomorrow. Granddaddy has been diligent in helping Erika with her physical therapy "homework". All this homework really wears Erika out!
I know I've used this verse before, but it is appropriate for today also. On my way through town I saw a bald eagle circling high about the business district. This verse came to mind. Thank you, God, for the reminder.
New International Version (©1984)
but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Michelle Mondelli
Monday, September 12, 2011
Sunday, 10:30pm
The Bennett family had a good day but Donald and Brianna both have colds. Please pray Erika and Brittany stay healthy and don't get it.
Jennifer should hear tomorrow about plans regarding Brittany's trip to Seattle. Jennifer is beat (physically and emotionally) but was able to spend some time in reflection today about how 9/11 affected her life. Her cousin, Frank John Niestadt Jr., died in the World Trade Center. We are remembering all those who have made sacrifices.
New International Version (©1984)
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Romans 8:28
Michelle Mondelli
Jennifer should hear tomorrow about plans regarding Brittany's trip to Seattle. Jennifer is beat (physically and emotionally) but was able to spend some time in reflection today about how 9/11 affected her life. Her cousin, Frank John Niestadt Jr., died in the World Trade Center. We are remembering all those who have made sacrifices.
New International Version (©1984)
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Romans 8:28
Michelle Mondelli
Saturday, September 10, 2011
Saturday, 10pm
The day day for Brittany and Erika could be summed up as being status quo. It was the first day of the "new normal" for all of the Bennetts (minus Brianna, who is on a Girl Scout camping trip). There were several visitors, but no therapies today.
Jennifer was able to get away and do a little shopping. She replaced Brittany's cell phone with hers and bought a new one for herself. (Go, Jennifer!) Unfortunately, the woman did not transfer all the information correctly and Jennifer lost all of her contacts. If you were (or think you were) one of her contacts, could you please text your name to Jennifer. She'll then add you to her contact list. Thanks.
Michelle Mondelli
Jennifer was able to get away and do a little shopping. She replaced Brittany's cell phone with hers and bought a new one for herself. (Go, Jennifer!) Unfortunately, the woman did not transfer all the information correctly and Jennifer lost all of her contacts. If you were (or think you were) one of her contacts, could you please text your name to Jennifer. She'll then add you to her contact list. Thanks.
Michelle Mondelli
Friday, September 9, 2011
Saturday, 10pm
Brittany got her wish! She is home!! (although temporarily) It appears she will be attending an inpatient rehabilitation program in Seattle beginning some time next week. She was happy with Chinese food for dinner. She also had a visit from a friend.
Erika had school tutoring for 2 hours today, followed by physical therapy. It all went well. Erika also had a visit from a friend.
2 “[d]The LORD is my strength and song,
And He has become my salvation;
This is my God, and I will praise Him;
My father’s God, and I will extol Him.
Michelle Mondelli
Erika had school tutoring for 2 hours today, followed by physical therapy. It all went well. Erika also had a visit from a friend.
2 “[d]The LORD is my strength and song,
And He has become my salvation;
This is my God, and I will praise Him;
My father’s God, and I will extol Him.
Michelle Mondelli
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Thursday, 10pm
Definitely a day of mixed blessings! After a visit to the orthopedic surgeon, Erika has to wear the cast on her left foot for another three weeks. She is able to take the splint off of her right leg a lot more now, though. She can also bear weight on the broken leg when doing transfers. That's good news. :) She also began her tutoring today. She was given homework. :(
Brittany was not accepted to the inpatient program we had hoped she'd go to. That's good news in that she is getting better and it was deemed not "medically necessary" but bad news in that the insurance company believes she can receive appropriate therapy here in Fairbanks. The good news for Brittany is she will probably be going home tomorrow. Don and Jennifer will need to make some decisions regarding follow up care and whether to pursue some outpatient therapy out of state.
Please pray for continued healing. Also pray for wisdom, patience, and understanding for the entire Bennett family as they will be all together again. They are together, but things will be different and that will create some difficulties. Also pray God will open up the doors to the next phase of treatment for the girls.
Brittany was not accepted to the inpatient program we had hoped she'd go to. That's good news in that she is getting better and it was deemed not "medically necessary" but bad news in that the insurance company believes she can receive appropriate therapy here in Fairbanks. The good news for Brittany is she will probably be going home tomorrow. Don and Jennifer will need to make some decisions regarding follow up care and whether to pursue some outpatient therapy out of state.
Please pray for continued healing. Also pray for wisdom, patience, and understanding for the entire Bennett family as they will be all together again. They are together, but things will be different and that will create some difficulties. Also pray God will open up the doors to the next phase of treatment for the girls.
Psalm 17:6
New International Version (NIV)
6 I call on you, my God, for you will answer me;
turn your ear to me and hear my prayer.
Michelle Mondelli
turn your ear to me and hear my prayer.
Michelle Mondelli
Wednesday, 11pm
The Bennett's are still waiting on a decision from the insurance company regarding Brittany and her rehab. Brittany still wants to go home but is slowly becoming resigned to having to go away. She continues her stay in FMH. On the bright side for Brittany, she got an ipad today. She spent time with Grandma Jo figuring it out and finding and playing music.
Erika has her first tutoring session tomorrow. She also has an appointment with the orthopedic surgeon to check on all her broken bones. She's hoping to get the cast off of her left foot. We'll see!!
Erika and Grandma Jo had a bonding moment today. They had a tender conversation referencing Philipians 4:13 before Erika's shower. Erika was able to transfer herself from her wheelchair to the shower chair by herself...YEAH! Grandma Jo helped Erika wash up and by the end Erika said it was the best shower she ever had! (Sorry Grandma Jo, the story sounds much better when you tell it!)
Erika has her first tutoring session tomorrow. She also has an appointment with the orthopedic surgeon to check on all her broken bones. She's hoping to get the cast off of her left foot. We'll see!!
Erika and Grandma Jo had a bonding moment today. They had a tender conversation referencing Philipians 4:13 before Erika's shower. Erika was able to transfer herself from her wheelchair to the shower chair by herself...YEAH! Grandma Jo helped Erika wash up and by the end Erika said it was the best shower she ever had! (Sorry Grandma Jo, the story sounds much better when you tell it!)
Philippians 4:13
New International Version (NIV)
13 I can do all this through him [Christ] who gives me strength.
Michelle Mondelli
Michelle Mondelli
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
Wednesday, 10am
I apologize for not posting last night. I had it all together, but then must have pressed save instead of publish. Sorry. I blame it on technical difficulties. I did post it this morning.
Michelle Mondelli
Michelle Mondelli
Tuesday, 10pm
Wow! It has been 30 days since the accident. The family has been experiencing a myriad of emotions during this time. Throughout it all, it is evident that God is in control. He is the Rock and the foundation of the Bennett family. We praise Him for all he has done and all he will do!
Physically, Brittany had a great day. She is still relatively pain free and able to have her broken leg in various positions. She would really like to go home and is pleading with everyone to pretend to be her parents in order to sign her out of the hospital. Don, Jennifer, and Brittany's doctor are still deciding the best course of rehab for Brittany. It may be inpatient or outpatient, but most likely out of state. Brittany is very distraught about this. We ask that you not write about it on Facebook, as she is very emotional right now. She does not understand why she can't go home to heal like Erika.
Erika is doing a little more each day. Today her Granddaddy had a hard time keeping up with her and her math lessons. (They are doing pre-Algebra in 5th grade now.) A special friend left her some pork ribs which she enjoyed and she went to the hospital to visit with Brittany. She did politely decline the offer of laying in her old bed!
The family asks for prayers for God's guidance and peace and comfort for Brittany. Please continue to pray for wisdom and patience for Brittany's parents and caretakers. Also, say a prayer for Don and JoLynn Bennett as they have spent the last month tending their grandchildren under very trying circumstances. And please don't forget to pray for healing...for each in the Bennett and Stickel families.
Isaiah 58:11
The Lord will guide you continually, and satisfy your needs in parched places, and make your bones strong, and you shall be like a watered garden, like a spring of water, whose waters never fail.
Michelle Mondelli
Physically, Brittany had a great day. She is still relatively pain free and able to have her broken leg in various positions. She would really like to go home and is pleading with everyone to pretend to be her parents in order to sign her out of the hospital. Don, Jennifer, and Brittany's doctor are still deciding the best course of rehab for Brittany. It may be inpatient or outpatient, but most likely out of state. Brittany is very distraught about this. We ask that you not write about it on Facebook, as she is very emotional right now. She does not understand why she can't go home to heal like Erika.
Erika is doing a little more each day. Today her Granddaddy had a hard time keeping up with her and her math lessons. (They are doing pre-Algebra in 5th grade now.) A special friend left her some pork ribs which she enjoyed and she went to the hospital to visit with Brittany. She did politely decline the offer of laying in her old bed!
The family asks for prayers for God's guidance and peace and comfort for Brittany. Please continue to pray for wisdom and patience for Brittany's parents and caretakers. Also, say a prayer for Don and JoLynn Bennett as they have spent the last month tending their grandchildren under very trying circumstances. And please don't forget to pray for healing...for each in the Bennett and Stickel families.
Isaiah 58:11
The Lord will guide you continually, and satisfy your needs in parched places, and make your bones strong, and you shall be like a watered garden, like a spring of water, whose waters never fail.
Michelle Mondelli
Monday, September 5, 2011
Monday, 9:30pm
What a difference a day can make!! The doctor tweaked Brittany's pain medicine the right way and she had a great day. According to Facebook, she's ready to go home, "
I thought now would be the time to update you on my friend, who got in a serious accident a month ago.
I went to visit her with a group of friends. I wasn’t sure what to expect. After all, this was my first time visiting someone in the hospital who I cared about. Nevertheless, I entered the room, and there she was. She seemed very cheerful, yet underneath that I could see the pain that she experienced since the day of the accident.
I had no idea how to comfort her other than doing what I did best when she was in my class: make her laugh. Going to visit someone in the hospital is one of those things that I don’t feel comfortable with. I mean, I loved seeing that she was her regular self, but I couldn’t help but feel for her pain. The whole time, I was thinking, she shouldn’t be in this position. I wished I could have taken her place in the accident. I felt morosed. A bittersweet moment.
However, if there was one thing I could take from this visit, was the fact that you can always find hope in anything and everywhere you go. Seeing her laugh and make funny jokes made my day. She was smiling at the world.
I thought now would be the time to update you on my friend, who got in a serious accident a month ago.
I went to visit her with a group of friends. I wasn’t sure what to expect. After all, this was my first time visiting someone in the hospital who I cared about. Nevertheless, I entered the room, and there she was. She seemed very cheerful, yet underneath that I could see the pain that she experienced since the day of the accident.
I had no idea how to comfort her other than doing what I did best when she was in my class: make her laugh. Going to visit someone in the hospital is one of those things that I don’t feel comfortable with. I mean, I loved seeing that she was her regular self, but I couldn’t help but feel for her pain. The whole time, I was thinking, she shouldn’t be in this position. I wished I could have taken her place in the accident. I felt morosed. A bittersweet moment.
However, if there was one thing I could take from this visit, was the fact that you can always find hope in anything and everywhere you go. Seeing her laugh and make funny jokes made my day. She was smiling at the world.
Michelle Mondelli
Sunday, September 4, 2011
Sunday, 10:30pm
Lost and Found: Roxanne has a blue, tie-dyed, zippered hoodie she picked up at the scene of the accident. If it's yours, please contact akmrm94@yahoo.com and we'll get it to you. Thanks.
Erika seemed to be having a good day. She was able to put her own shirt on and finally wore a pair of jeans (her favorite). Don and Grandma Jo were able to take her out to evening services and then to the hospital. I believe it's her first non-hospital outing.
Brittany continues to have a tougher time of it. She continues to complain of pain and the doctor continues to tweak the medication. We believe the pain is being caused by the TBI and are learning all we can about the condition. Brittany needs continued prayers for patience, coping, and healing from the TBI, in particular.
Brittany's doctor has come in twice on her days off to see her and we appreciate her help. She has sent Jennifer home again tonight to get some rest. The doctor did a nice job of explaining to Brittany why mom had to go home. Brittany didn't like it, but she accepted it.
"...for I, the LORD, am your healer."
Exodus 15:26
Michelle Mondelli
Erika seemed to be having a good day. She was able to put her own shirt on and finally wore a pair of jeans (her favorite). Don and Grandma Jo were able to take her out to evening services and then to the hospital. I believe it's her first non-hospital outing.
Brittany continues to have a tougher time of it. She continues to complain of pain and the doctor continues to tweak the medication. We believe the pain is being caused by the TBI and are learning all we can about the condition. Brittany needs continued prayers for patience, coping, and healing from the TBI, in particular.
Brittany's doctor has come in twice on her days off to see her and we appreciate her help. She has sent Jennifer home again tonight to get some rest. The doctor did a nice job of explaining to Brittany why mom had to go home. Brittany didn't like it, but she accepted it.
"...for I, the LORD, am your healer."
Exodus 15:26
Michelle Mondelli
Saturday, September 3, 2011
Saturday, 10pm
Erika had a good day until bathtime. She didn't want to take a shower. She had a visit from Mr. Wiegend, her third grade teacher. She also had her evaluation and her therapies will begin next week.
Brittany was able to rest more today due to a medicine change. She did take a "stroll" outside with a friend today, but thought it was too cold to stay out for very long. She is getting stronger and is able to transfer from the wheelchair to the bed with only a spotter. Her pain is still persistent.
Please pray for Jennifer. Tonight is the first night she has left the hospital premises in the last week. The doctor told her to go home for the evening. Brittany was not happy, but Jennifer needs the rest.
‘Do not fear, for I am with you;
Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you, surely I will help you,
Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’
Isaiah 41:10
Michelle Mondelli
Brittany was able to rest more today due to a medicine change. She did take a "stroll" outside with a friend today, but thought it was too cold to stay out for very long. She is getting stronger and is able to transfer from the wheelchair to the bed with only a spotter. Her pain is still persistent.
Please pray for Jennifer. Tonight is the first night she has left the hospital premises in the last week. The doctor told her to go home for the evening. Brittany was not happy, but Jennifer needs the rest.
‘Do not fear, for I am with you;
Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you, surely I will help you,
Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’
Isaiah 41:10
Michelle Mondelli
Friday, September 2, 2011
Friday, 10:30pm
Erika had a good day at home. She worked on her US map and did some math schoolwork. She also spent quite a bit of time on the computer. She was able to travel back to the hospital to see Brittany in the evening. A nurse will be visiting and conducting an evaluation for therapies in the home tomorrow.
Brittany is still having a difficult time. The doctors have changed her pain meds but she is still complaining. She does not like to be touched or have a lot of noise around. She will continue to be in the hospital until Monday, at the earliest. If you visit, please make it short and quiet and no hugging or touching Brittany unless she asks. Thanks for understanding.
For with God nothing shall be impossible.
Luke 1:37
Michelle Mondelli
Brittany is still having a difficult time. The doctors have changed her pain meds but she is still complaining. She does not like to be touched or have a lot of noise around. She will continue to be in the hospital until Monday, at the earliest. If you visit, please make it short and quiet and no hugging or touching Brittany unless she asks. Thanks for understanding.
For with God nothing shall be impossible.
Luke 1:37
Michelle Mondelli
Thursday, September 1, 2011
Thursday, 10pm
The biggest news of the day is Erika went home! She was excited, as were Donald and Brianna. Erika will begin her therapies tomorrow. Please call before visiting.
Brittany's medications were changed today. The doctor is trying to find the correct combination to keep Brittany comfortable. We are seeing the manifestations of the TBI, such as anxiety, irratibility, frustration, and some other physical symptoms. These need to be taken care of before Brittany can go home.
Brittany's medications were changed today. The doctor is trying to find the correct combination to keep Brittany comfortable. We are seeing the manifestations of the TBI, such as anxiety, irratibility, frustration, and some other physical symptoms. These need to be taken care of before Brittany can go home.
2 Corinthians 4:16-18
New International Version (NIV)
16 Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. 17 For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. 18 So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.
Michelle Mondelli
Michelle Mondelli
Wednesday, 11pm
Erika had a great day. She spent a lot of time in her wheelchair. She was able to do several transfers (between the bed and wheelchair) with minimal assistance. She did have a slight fever this evening but is resting comfortably.
On the other hand, Brittany, had a harder day. She is still complaining about her pain level and is very irritable and frustrated. We are told this is all part of the traumatic brain injury (TBI).
Tomorrow will be a day of decisions for Don, Jennifer, and the doctors. The girls' regular pediatrician will be on duty. There is a possibility the girls' will released.
Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying. Romans 12:12 NLT
(Thanks, Kris.)
Michelle Mondelli
On the other hand, Brittany, had a harder day. She is still complaining about her pain level and is very irritable and frustrated. We are told this is all part of the traumatic brain injury (TBI).
Tomorrow will be a day of decisions for Don, Jennifer, and the doctors. The girls' regular pediatrician will be on duty. There is a possibility the girls' will released.
Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying. Romans 12:12 NLT
(Thanks, Kris.)
Michelle Mondelli
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Tuesday, 10:30 pm
Lots of visitors for the girls today. Erika took several rides in her wheelchair. Mrs. M, PJ, and Jesse were able to take her on "her most fun ride yet!" Erika and Jesse also had wheelchair races in the halls. Watch out, nurses!
Jennifer has been busy meeting with various professionals. There are lots of insurance forms to fill out and decisions to make regarding the girls' care. Please continue to pray for healing for the girls, and wisdom and patience for Don and Jennifer and the hospital staff.
Michelle Mondelli
Jennifer has been busy meeting with various professionals. There are lots of insurance forms to fill out and decisions to make regarding the girls' care. Please continue to pray for healing for the girls, and wisdom and patience for Don and Jennifer and the hospital staff.
Michelle Mondelli
Monday, August 29, 2011
Monday, 11pm
After a rough night (last night) for Brittany, it was a busy day for both girls. They had visits from the speech, physical, and occupational therapists today. Brittany had several friends from school stop by also. Erika was able to "escape" on a field trip to the orthodontist. The family has eaten several meals together in the hospital cafeteria. The girls are able to move and help themselves a little more each day, but it is slow progress. Right now it's all about "waiting and deciding".
Matthew 11:28-29 Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
Michelle Mondelli
Matthew 11:28-29 Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
Michelle Mondelli
Sunday, 11pm
What a difference 24 hours (and some pain meds) make!!! Both Erika and Brittany were alert and talkative for the couple of hours I was there this evening. They had many visitors today. Some even played "monkey catch" with the girls! Tomorrow will be a busy day with several therapists coming to visit. Erika gets to "escape" the hospital and go to the orthodontist to fix the wire that has been bothering her.
It was a joy to see the progress the girls have made in the past couple of days. Please continue to pray for wisdom, patience, and healing for all involved.
Isaiah 40:31
but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Michelle Mondelli
It was a joy to see the progress the girls have made in the past couple of days. Please continue to pray for wisdom, patience, and healing for all involved.
Isaiah 40:31
but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Michelle Mondelli
Sunday, August 28, 2011
Sunday, 12;30am
After much consideration, Erika was also admitted to Fairbanks Memorial Hospital tonight. She had a good day at home, but there is concern about her food and liquid intake. Also, it is difficult to care for the girls at home since they need help with everything. It's not so easy to lift 50 pounds, especially while trying not to aggravate her injuries! I did see her beautiful smile several times this evening.
Brittany's pain meds were increased and it has helped a lot. She was able to take several naps today. Pray she can sleep tonight. She seemed calmer and not agitated tonight when I left.
Jennifer wanted me to reiterate this re-admission to the hospital is not necessarily a step back. It was taken to get the girls comfortable and get them the services they need. (Perhaps they were discharged a little too early.) The girls will be evaluated to see what the next step should be. They will probably be there until Monday, at least.
Please say a special prayer for Donald and Brianna. I think Brianna is feeling a little left out. Donald cried when he found out Erika was going to FMH. He was very upset. He has been a big helper: carrying the baby monitor around and helping bring food and run messages from the girls. It can't be easy having your sisters home and then gone again. Pray, also, for Jennifer, who is spending the night at the hospital. Pray for sleep! Sleep is good!
Michelle Mondelli
For He has torn us, but He will heal us;
He has [a]wounded us, but He will bandage us.
Brittany's pain meds were increased and it has helped a lot. She was able to take several naps today. Pray she can sleep tonight. She seemed calmer and not agitated tonight when I left.
Jennifer wanted me to reiterate this re-admission to the hospital is not necessarily a step back. It was taken to get the girls comfortable and get them the services they need. (Perhaps they were discharged a little too early.) The girls will be evaluated to see what the next step should be. They will probably be there until Monday, at least.
Please say a special prayer for Donald and Brianna. I think Brianna is feeling a little left out. Donald cried when he found out Erika was going to FMH. He was very upset. He has been a big helper: carrying the baby monitor around and helping bring food and run messages from the girls. It can't be easy having your sisters home and then gone again. Pray, also, for Jennifer, who is spending the night at the hospital. Pray for sleep! Sleep is good!
Michelle Mondelli
New American Standard Bible (NASB)
Hosea 6
The Response to God’s Rebuke
1 “Come, let us return to the LORD.For He has torn us, but He will heal us;
He has [a]wounded us, but He will bandage us.
Saturday, August 27, 2011
Saturday, 12:30pm
We were told there would be set backs. Jennifer took Brittany to the ER this morning for pain. Brittany has been admitted to Fairbanks Memorial Hospital in the pediatric section. She will stay until at least Monday. She was resting at last report.
Michelle Mondelli
Michelle Mondelli
Friday, 11pm
Jennifer was thankful to Alaska Airlines for the shorter than normal flight yesterday. It was only 39 minutes. Erika was able to sleep some.
As expected, the girls continue to be demanding, even at home. They need help moving and shifting in bed, getting in and out of bed, etc. Erika is learning to maneuver her own wheel chair. She says it's hard on the carpet. Both girls' wounds are healing and that, in itself, brings some pain. (Those of you who have had surgery can empathize.) They are still very tired and not sleeping well, especially at night.
Since returning home, there has been discussion regarding the girls' discharge from the hospital and the manner it was handled. Don and Jennifer need lots of prayers to make the right decisions for the girls' care.
Michelle Mondelli
As expected, the girls continue to be demanding, even at home. They need help moving and shifting in bed, getting in and out of bed, etc. Erika is learning to maneuver her own wheel chair. She says it's hard on the carpet. Both girls' wounds are healing and that, in itself, brings some pain. (Those of you who have had surgery can empathize.) They are still very tired and not sleeping well, especially at night.
Since returning home, there has been discussion regarding the girls' discharge from the hospital and the manner it was handled. Don and Jennifer need lots of prayers to make the right decisions for the girls' care.
Michelle Mondelli
James 1:5
New International Version (NIV)
5 If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.
Friday, August 26, 2011
Thursday, 11pm
The Bennett Family is together again!! Don, Jennifer, Erika, and Brittany touched down in Fairbanks around 4pm this afternoon. There was a nice group of family friends (including one of the rescuers) to meet them. Now the real healing for everyone involved can begin.
For these first days: Visitors are welcome but please call first and keep the visits brief. The girls will be having various therapies at home for the time being.
We appreciate all the prayers thus far. They are working!
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks same as the Bennetts)
For these first days: Visitors are welcome but please call first and keep the visits brief. The girls will be having various therapies at home for the time being.
We appreciate all the prayers thus far. They are working!
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks same as the Bennetts)
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Wednesday, 11pm
The news of the day is Erika and Brittany are coming home tomorrow (Thursday)!!! They will be able to go to their own home. Friends and family are setting up a bedroom for them to share. They will be in wheelchairs and will need 24 hour care for a long time. They will be receiving several therapies each. It could be a while before they go to school.
God has been so good during all of this! We have been able to see his hand in all that has gone on and praise him for it. Please keep praying for the whole family, for a smooth transition, for continued wisdom and patience for those surrounding all the children involved, and for continued emotional and physical healing. God bless!
Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm, for God can be trusted to keep his promise.
~ Hebrews 10:23, NLT
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
God has been so good during all of this! We have been able to see his hand in all that has gone on and praise him for it. Please keep praying for the whole family, for a smooth transition, for continued wisdom and patience for those surrounding all the children involved, and for continued emotional and physical healing. God bless!
Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm, for God can be trusted to keep his promise.
~ Hebrews 10:23, NLT
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Tuesday, 11pm
After a sleepless night, the girls had a full and busy day. They got to go for a "walk", have more x-rays, physical and speech, therapy, and Erika even fit in some math work today. There were lots of medical visitors. Hospital staff have been busy trying to access the varying abilities of the girls, getting them ready for discharge.
Erika's doctor is very pleased with her breathing. Her oxygen levels have increased from yesterday.
Trixie Lee and Rachel Hoffman visited the girls this evening. They were also able to visit via "Skype" with the Bennetts in Fairbanks. The girls were able to have a meal together with Mom, Dad, and VickiTaylor tonight also.
Planning for discharge is a positive step, but it is extremely overwhelming for Don and Jennifer. Please pray for wisdom, patience, and sanity for those caring for the girls. Brittany and Erika are at a very demanding phase of healing at this moment and need our prayers, particularly for emotional healing.
1 God is our refuge and strength,
an ever-present help in trouble.
2 Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way
and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea,
3 though its waters roar and foam
and the mountains quake with their surging.[c]
10 He says, “Be still, and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth.”
Psalm 46:1-3,10
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
Erika's doctor is very pleased with her breathing. Her oxygen levels have increased from yesterday.
Trixie Lee and Rachel Hoffman visited the girls this evening. They were also able to visit via "Skype" with the Bennetts in Fairbanks. The girls were able to have a meal together with Mom, Dad, and VickiTaylor tonight also.
Planning for discharge is a positive step, but it is extremely overwhelming for Don and Jennifer. Please pray for wisdom, patience, and sanity for those caring for the girls. Brittany and Erika are at a very demanding phase of healing at this moment and need our prayers, particularly for emotional healing.
1 God is our refuge and strength,
an ever-present help in trouble.
2 Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way
and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea,
3 though its waters roar and foam
and the mountains quake with their surging.[c]
10 He says, “Be still, and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth.”
Psalm 46:1-3,10
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Monday, 11pm
Erika was able to get off oxygen today! Her words of the day are "I guess." She was able to have a bath and get dressed. Vicki Taylor did her nails in lime green with crackle. She will be starting school (at the hospital) tomorrow.
Brittany is now able to drink water from a cup (without a spoon) for the first time. To celebrate, the girls had some Sprite.
The girls were able to take a "walk" and got to visit with a yellow lab dog. Their favorite evening charge nurse brought them McFlurries tonight.
Please pray for the emotional well-being of the kids. Erika and Brittany have a long road of physical and emotional healing ahead of them.
Brittany is now able to drink water from a cup (without a spoon) for the first time. To celebrate, the girls had some Sprite.
The girls were able to take a "walk" and got to visit with a yellow lab dog. Their favorite evening charge nurse brought them McFlurries tonight.
Please pray for the emotional well-being of the kids. Erika and Brittany have a long road of physical and emotional healing ahead of them.
Monday, August 22, 2011
Stickel Update Monday, 2:45pm
Jesse was cleared to leave the hospital this morning and was discharged about 11 AM. Now he can head home to torture his sister. He did have bowel movements over the weekend and we are happy about that. Doctor indicates he is progressing nicely. Last night as he and I talked about his pending departure, he said he wasn't sure he was ready to leave. Who would be after being hanging out and being pampered with Xbox, Disney Channel, Computer games, movies and a button to call the nurses whenever he wanted to. He has started to joke around and become fiesty...so we know he is better. Thanks for all the prayers.
Tim Stickel
Tim Stickel
Sunday, August 21, 2011
Sunday, 10:15pm
What a blessing to spend the weekend in Anchorage with Erika and Brittany!
Both girls had a hard night last night. They were lonely, scared, and wanted Mom. We were told this is part of the normal healing from trauma, but it is very tiring for Don and Jennifer.
Erika is making steady improvements. She was able to go onto "wall" oxygen this morning. This allowed her to be transferred to the regular Pediatrics floor! Her room is across from Brittany's room. Erika's new past-time is going for wheelchair rides. She got to go outside twice this morning and to the cafeteria. Unfortunately, they didn't have any Cheetos!
Brittany had a good day. She was able to have a real shower and put on real clothes. After the rough night, her day got better when she was able to access a new Facebook account (brit bennett). She was very frustrated this morning because she had forgotten her passwords, changed them, and then couldn't remember the new ones. She was locked out of her email and Facebook. Thanks for being understanding. She already has 50 friends on her new page!
Michelle Mondelli
(back in Fairbanks)
Both girls had a hard night last night. They were lonely, scared, and wanted Mom. We were told this is part of the normal healing from trauma, but it is very tiring for Don and Jennifer.
Erika is making steady improvements. She was able to go onto "wall" oxygen this morning. This allowed her to be transferred to the regular Pediatrics floor! Her room is across from Brittany's room. Erika's new past-time is going for wheelchair rides. She got to go outside twice this morning and to the cafeteria. Unfortunately, they didn't have any Cheetos!
Brittany had a good day. She was able to have a real shower and put on real clothes. After the rough night, her day got better when she was able to access a new Facebook account (brit bennett). She was very frustrated this morning because she had forgotten her passwords, changed them, and then couldn't remember the new ones. She was locked out of her email and Facebook. Thanks for being understanding. She already has 50 friends on her new page!
Michelle Mondelli
(back in Fairbanks)
Saturday, August 20, 2011
Saturday, 9pm
What a wonderful day! God is so good!
The girls have had a good day. Erika had her feeding tube removed this morning. They were able to turn down her oxygen enough for both girls to take a field trip. They were able to ride in wheelchairs/stretcher chairs to go across the skywalk and into a couple of other towers. The nurse even took them outside to the top deck of the parking garage! The girls really enjoyed it! Erika wanted to go back out tonight.
There was a lot of excitement after as the field trip was ending. As we were coming back into the peds unit when we met up with James and Andrea Smith (and their girls) and Jeff and Beth Reichel, TJ and Leiah. Brittany was so excited! They were able to visit for a minute before the girls went back to their rooms to take a nap. Walking (even while being pushed in wheelchairs) is exhausting!
Brittany was moved to a regular bed in the pediatric unit, but visitors are still limited. Both girls are eating better and they weren't quite as oppositional as they had been. They thought the Chinese food brought in for them was "great"! Erika finished off the McFlurry her nurse last night brought for her.
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
Proverbs 3:5
Michelle Modelli
(in Anchorage)
The girls have had a good day. Erika had her feeding tube removed this morning. They were able to turn down her oxygen enough for both girls to take a field trip. They were able to ride in wheelchairs/stretcher chairs to go across the skywalk and into a couple of other towers. The nurse even took them outside to the top deck of the parking garage! The girls really enjoyed it! Erika wanted to go back out tonight.
There was a lot of excitement after as the field trip was ending. As we were coming back into the peds unit when we met up with James and Andrea Smith (and their girls) and Jeff and Beth Reichel, TJ and Leiah. Brittany was so excited! They were able to visit for a minute before the girls went back to their rooms to take a nap. Walking (even while being pushed in wheelchairs) is exhausting!
Brittany was moved to a regular bed in the pediatric unit, but visitors are still limited. Both girls are eating better and they weren't quite as oppositional as they had been. They thought the Chinese food brought in for them was "great"! Erika finished off the McFlurry her nurse last night brought for her.
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
Proverbs 3:5
Michelle Modelli
(in Anchorage)
Saturday, 1am
It is so good to see all the positive changes in Brittany and Erika for myself! A lot can happen in a week!
Today was a hard day for both girls. Brittany's leg was really bothering her and she was very uncomfortable. By this evening, Facebook and medication helped to create a diversion. She was resting peacefully when we left for the evening.
Posted on Brittany's Facebook this evening:
Michelle Mondelli
(in Anchorage)
Today was a hard day for both girls. Brittany's leg was really bothering her and she was very uncomfortable. By this evening, Facebook and medication helped to create a diversion. She was resting peacefully when we left for the evening.
Posted on Brittany's Facebook this evening:
Michelle Mondelli
(in Anchorage)
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Thursday, 10pm
Brittany had a pretty good day. She was able to remember her Facebook password and methodically tried to answer all her posts.
Erika had a very tough day. She is very uncomfortable and is being forced/encouraged to cough. Please pray for a restful night.
Don and Jennifer enjoyed a vistit by Trixie Lee, of Fairbanks.
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
Erika had a very tough day. She is very uncomfortable and is being forced/encouraged to cough. Please pray for a restful night.
Don and Jennifer enjoyed a vistit by Trixie Lee, of Fairbanks.
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
Thursday, 7pm
Here is the latest (as of today)
Kaylee was excited to be able to venture away from the bed and recliner today as she has been housebound all week. Unfortunately, nothing too exciting except an xray and some blood work. She is really getting used to her crutches and can exceed speed limits when needed.
It was also a good day for Jesse. This morning, he was able to get his NG hose out. Although it was also uncomfortable coming out (not nearly as much as going in), he is glad it is over. The constriction on his intestines is opening and he no longer needs his stomach pumped. They will keep him in the hospital on an IV diet to ensure all things are working properly. He has been given strict orders to get up and walk every hour so his stomach (which has been idle for some time) can start doing its thing. If you visit, take him for a walk. He is also excited to use the fancy scale in the hospital to see if he is gaining weight. He gained 4 ounces yesterday. Yea God!
Tim Stickel
Thursday, 9am
Early morning news: Brittany not longer needs to be on oxygen. That's one less tube for her!
The bigger news is they took Erika off of the ventilator this morning! She needs prayers that she can keep coughing and have enough energy to keep breathing on her own. This is a big positive step.
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
The bigger news is they took Erika off of the ventilator this morning! She needs prayers that she can keep coughing and have enough energy to keep breathing on her own. This is a big positive step.
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Wednesday, 5pm
This news couldn't wait! Once again good things happen while Don and Jennifer are away eating....The neurologist came by. He was "unimpressed" which in medical talk is good news. He believes Brittany will eventually make a full recovery!!! Praise God!!
Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord,
Whose trust is the Lord.
Heal me, O Lord, and I shall be healed;
Save me, and I shall be saved,
...For You are my praise.
Jer 17:8, 14
Whose trust is the Lord.
Heal me, O Lord, and I shall be healed;
Save me, and I shall be saved,
...For You are my praise.
Jer 17:8, 14
Michelle Mondelli (with help from Kevin Knight)
(in Fairbanks)
Wednesday, 12:30pm
There is good news already today! Erika had her last chest tube and catheter taken out. Jennifer asked for prayers because Erika is "fiesty" today. Pray for patience and wisdom for everyone interacting with the girls.
The work for Brittany is just beginning: the physical therapist, occupational therapist, speech therapist, neurologist, and the rehabililitation specialist are all coming to see her.
Brittany would appreciate recieving messages on Facebook. She is not able to comment, yet.
Brittany was allowed a short visit with Erika this morning. It was very emotional. Brittany told Erika she was "beautiful", she loved her, and she was proud of her family.
Please pray for the pyschological health of all the kids involved. Erika was able to write and ask, "Why did this happen?" I'm sure the others are feeling the same way.
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
The work for Brittany is just beginning: the physical therapist, occupational therapist, speech therapist, neurologist, and the rehabililitation specialist are all coming to see her.
Brittany would appreciate recieving messages on Facebook. She is not able to comment, yet.
Brittany was allowed a short visit with Erika this morning. It was very emotional. Brittany told Erika she was "beautiful", she loved her, and she was proud of her family.
Please pray for the pyschological health of all the kids involved. Erika was able to write and ask, "Why did this happen?" I'm sure the others are feeling the same way.
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
Tuesday, 10:50pm
Erika slept most of the day. The suctioning is exhausting for her. She is "breathing over the ventilator" a little bit which is a good sign. While trying to communicate, she did write "record". We're still trying to figure out what that means.
The therapeutic harpist came and played on the floor today. She played two songs and Brittany was able to sing along. Erika slept through it.
Brittany is without chest tubes! They pulled the last one today. She is less agitated and is regaining some bodily control. Don, Jennifer, and Brittany were able to Skype with Don, JoLynn, Brianna, Donald, and Vicki. At one point this afternoon, Brittany was trying to impersonate the doctor. She wanted to change the orders to get water. The small amount of ice chips weren't cutting it.
28 “Come to Me, all [a]who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS. 30 For My yoke is [b]easy and My burden is light.”
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
The therapeutic harpist came and played on the floor today. She played two songs and Brittany was able to sing along. Erika slept through it.
Brittany is without chest tubes! They pulled the last one today. She is less agitated and is regaining some bodily control. Don, Jennifer, and Brittany were able to Skype with Don, JoLynn, Brianna, Donald, and Vicki. At one point this afternoon, Brittany was trying to impersonate the doctor. She wanted to change the orders to get water. The small amount of ice chips weren't cutting it.
Matthew 11:28-30
New American Standard Bible (NASB)
28 “Come to Me, all [a]who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS. 30 For My yoke is [b]easy and My burden is light.”
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
Monday, August 15, 2011
Monday, 9pm
The plastic surgeon/ENT doctor (yes, he's both) came by this evening to take out the girls' stitches. Erika had stitches around her right eye. Brittany had stitches in the area of her right ear. The doctor said the girls' looked much better than the last time he had seen them (last Monday). He also told Don and Jennifer to "Keep the faith".
Brittany's focus today has been water. She must be thirsty! She's still not allowed to eat or drink. She is slightly less agitated. Yesterday, she requested Don to come and pray with her. They took turns praying and Brittany prayed for everyone but herself!
Erika has been awake a lot more. It is still very painful for her when they suction her lungs.
The fever wars are back on. It is a normal part of the healing process. The war for Mom and Dad's attention has just begun. As the girls' are awake more, Don and Jennifer must divide and conquer. Each parents takes a daughter. If one girl is sleeping, then Don and Jennifer can sit together in the other girl's room.
The girls will be ICU for at least another week. Whatever comes next is still a mystery.
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
LISTEN TO OUR HEARTS
(by Steven Curtis Chapman and Geoff Moore)
YOU KNOW ALL OUR HOPES
LORD YOU KNOW ALL OUR FEARS
AND WORDS CAN NOT EXPRESS THE LOVE WE FEEL
BUT WE LONG FOR YOU TO HEAR
SO IF YOU'LL LISTEN TO MY HEART
EV'RY BEAT WILL SAY
THANK YOU FOR THE LIFE
THANK YOU FOR THE TRUTH
THANK YOU FOR THE WAY
LORD LISTEN TO OUR HEARTS HEAR OUR SPIRITS SING
A SONG OF PRAISE THAT FLOWS
FROM THOSE YOU HAVE REDEEMED
WE WILL USE THE WORDS WE KNOW
TO TELL YOU WHAT AN AWESOME GOD YOU ARE
BUT WORDS ARE NOT ENOUGH
TO TELL YOU OF OUR LOVE SO LISTEN TO OUR HEARTS
Brittany's focus today has been water. She must be thirsty! She's still not allowed to eat or drink. She is slightly less agitated. Yesterday, she requested Don to come and pray with her. They took turns praying and Brittany prayed for everyone but herself!
Erika has been awake a lot more. It is still very painful for her when they suction her lungs.
The fever wars are back on. It is a normal part of the healing process. The war for Mom and Dad's attention has just begun. As the girls' are awake more, Don and Jennifer must divide and conquer. Each parents takes a daughter. If one girl is sleeping, then Don and Jennifer can sit together in the other girl's room.
The girls will be ICU for at least another week. Whatever comes next is still a mystery.
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
LISTEN TO OUR HEARTS
(by Steven Curtis Chapman and Geoff Moore)
YOU KNOW ALL OUR HOPES
LORD YOU KNOW ALL OUR FEARS
AND WORDS CAN NOT EXPRESS THE LOVE WE FEEL
BUT WE LONG FOR YOU TO HEAR
SO IF YOU'LL LISTEN TO MY HEART
EV'RY BEAT WILL SAY
THANK YOU FOR THE LIFE
THANK YOU FOR THE TRUTH
THANK YOU FOR THE WAY
LORD LISTEN TO OUR HEARTS HEAR OUR SPIRITS SING
A SONG OF PRAISE THAT FLOWS
FROM THOSE YOU HAVE REDEEMED
WE WILL USE THE WORDS WE KNOW
TO TELL YOU WHAT AN AWESOME GOD YOU ARE
BUT WORDS ARE NOT ENOUGH
TO TELL YOU OF OUR LOVE SO LISTEN TO OUR HEARTS
Donation update, Monday, 4:30pm
There has been some confusion regarding the donation account for the Bennett Family at Alaska USA Federal Credit Union. There is another Bennett account so please be sure to mark donations for Alaska car accident. This will ensure the money gets to the correct account. Thank you.
A Donation Account has been opened at The Alaska USA Federal Credit Union for the Bennett family. Checks can be made to Alaska USA Federal Credit Union and in the memo area write: Donation Account for the Bennett Family (Alaska car accident). A donation can be made at any branch in Alaska or send your check to:
Alaska USA Federal Credit Union
1261 Ariport Way, Fairbanks 99701
Michelle Mondelli
(in Fairbanks)
Stickel Family update, Monday, 12pm
Fairbanks Info from the weekend...
I read with emotion Sean's email. Roxanne and I were at the hospital on Friday afternoon when Sean and Kaylene showed up, At first, I thought Roxanne knew them and she thought I knew them. More conversation revealed who they were....tools used by God. God puts people into our lives at just the right moment and we are thankful God used Sean and Kaylene.
As many of you know, Kaylee has been discharged. She is at home resting and texting. Now starts her two months of being home bound and off her leg. She is not to be traveling in a vehicle unless its an absolute emergency. Of course, a trip to get ice cream at Hot Licks or Cold Stone would constitute emergency for her.
Jesse had a tough weekend. It was determined he needed a PICC IV (in through his arm, up the shoulder to the chest) as he was losing body weight and this PICC line would give the medical staff better options for feeding him. The operation couldn't happen until Monday morning. By Saturday night, both of his arm IVs failed and he wasn't getting any of his nutrients or medications. So on Saturday night, the nurses removed his arm IVs and put another IV into his left leg. Then on Sunday night, his left leg IV failed too. The nurses moved to the right leg to find a good vein. After three tries, they found a vein that would work for the night. Although uncomfortable he slept through the night. This morning he was taken to the OR for his operation to insert his PICC line. He was sedated during the operation and Roxanne indicates that it was successful. He is currently in recovery and will hopefully be back in his room soon.
Praise God for daily improvements with everyone.
Tim Stickel
Monday, 9am-CAUTION! EMOTIONAL EMAIL
Below is an emotional email sent to the Bennett Family from one of the first responders. I believe it was received on Wednesday, August 10th.
Bennett Family,
I have gone over in my mind what to say or whether to say anything at all. There are no words I could write to make this situation better, but I hope to give some encouragement. My girlfriend, Kaylene, and myself were on our way back to Fairbanks from a weekend camping trip on Sunday. We were not in a hurry, and decided to take our time stopping frequently to fish and hike. We were really dragging our feet trying to get the most out of the weekend! We had just finished a two mile hike in Denali and a brief stop to get some water, then got back on the road to make the final push home. We had just passed through Healy when we saw a truck wrecked on the road. I sped up to the scene of the accident and seeing that it had just happened, got out to help. (I just recently finished 8 years in the Army as a Combat Medic and have spent the last ten as an EMT and volunteer firefighter.) A man came up the hill on the side of the road holding a girl (who I later learned was Kaylee) in his arms. I took her and asked if anyone else was down there and he said yes. Kaylene ran down the hill and carried Jesse up while I looked after Kaylee. Another bystander came to assist and I told them to stay with her. I went down the hill and saw the Suburban on its side. We knew there were more children inside. I was able to force open the back glass to the truck and crawl inside. I saw Erika first and then looked to the front and saw Brittany move. I handed suitcases and other luggage out to other people and made a space to check Erika. I could tell she was hurt badly. An off duty Fairbanks firefighter had shown up and we agreed that in order to save her life we had to move her quickly. She was pinned in, but I managed to work her legs free. We took every precaution we could to get her out safely as possible and were able to slide her out of the vehicle. Once Erika was free I was able to move to Brittany. I could tell Brittany was going to be harder to get out because of how her legs were pinned. Another EMT who arrived was able to hand me a C-Collar to place around her neck. A young man named Jameson was able to put his hand under the side of the truck to help stabilize her while several others used their own weight to hold the vehicle to keep it from toppling. I was trying to hold Brittany still while we waited for a rescue truck, but she’s a heck of a fighter! Kaylene was outside the truck talking to her through the windshield and that seemed to calm her a bit. It seemed like a lifetime waiting on the rescue truck to come with the extrication tools. It took roughly an hour, but finally they showed up. A firefighter named Rusty told me he was going to break the windshield and I covered Brittany with a blanket I found in the truck. The firefighters put wood shoring under the truck to stabilize it and we decided the best way to get her out was to cut the roof off of the truck. I made sure both Brittany and myself were covered and tried to lay over her as best I could. They cut the roof and that enabled us to place a short spine board under Brittany to better stabilize her. A nurse named Tara had shown up and with Kaylene’s help worked to get basic vital signs on Brittany. Rusty and I worked for about 45 minutes to free her. He used a tool to spread a space between the seats while I used cutters to cut the seat mount free. After we cut the seat mount I grabbed the seat and pulled back as hard as I could creating a space for Rusty to use a pair of shears to cut Brittany’s shoe off. That enabled us to free her feet and gently move her out of the truck and onto a long spine board. Myself, Rusty and two other firefighters carried Brittany up the hill to a waiting ambulance. That was the beginning of what I am sure going to be an amazing story of survival for those precious girls. I’m sure this was not easy to read, but I just felt that it was important for this family to know what went into freeing Brittany and Erika. I have seen people at their worst and all too often in my life I have witnessed horrible things. This was not one of those times. I firmly believe God put everyone involved in Brittany and Erika’s rescue together on that road to ensure they lived. A group of strangers worked together for one common goal and that is truly a blessing. Kaylene and I are blessed and honored to have been placed there to help.
Sincerely,
Sean
(copied with permission, by Michelle Mondelli)
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